These links take you to searchable directories of therapists, attorneys, and other professionals who are more likely to understand and accept you.

All kinds of professionals.  Huge listing, easy to search   http://www.polychromatic.com/pfp//main.php (Poly Friendly Professionals)

The KAP list, oldest of it's kind.   https://www.ncsfreedom.org/resources/kink-aware-professionals-directory/kap-directory-homepage.html (KAP List)   Background of the KAP List

"Justine's List" - FetLifer Referrals to BDSM-aware & Kink-friendly helping professionals - Therapist, psychotherapist, psychologist, psychoanalyst, doctor, bodyworker, lawyer, legal office, medical practioner, health, insurance, family & probate, marital - on Fetlife.com   https://fetlife.com/groups/8303 (Justine's List)

Essay on finding a suitable therapist, in the Justine's List group on Fetlife   https://fetlife.com/groups/8303/group_posts/1900972 Essay on finding a suitable therapist

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