When: 2nd Thursday each  month
Time: 6 PM - 10 PM. (Munch hosts arrive around 5:30 so come early if you want!) Discussion will start around 7:15PM.
Location: Provided to those who give a definite RSVP.
Confirmations: Will be sent out 2 - 3 days prior to the munch with location & directions.
Cost: Cost of your meal/drinks + be sure to tip your server!

Discussion Topic description (see "More Detail on Discussion Topic" below):
~ How do you open your relationship without harming what you already have?
~ Are you a couple seeking a third?
~ Are you married to a vanilla spouse and hoping to find a steady play partner?
~ Is your long time partner "just not interested" in your kinky side? And you love them and can't stand to think about leaving?

These are the most common questions we've heard over the past two years as we went out to meet new people.

Let's have a discussion about what works and what doesn't.

About our Presenter ~
~ Ponygroom has a lengthy "kink resume". At clubs, meetings, or events he has taught ponyplay, vaginal fisting, how to spank a woman to orgasm, scene ethics, and basic electro-stim. He has facilitated roundtables on ethical non-monogamy. In his role as an Official Greeter for a club in Virginia, he introduced more than 100 people to the BDSM and fetish social scenes. He continues this here in the Ocala, Florida area.

~ In 2007, Ponygroom got a pony of his very own, lyndsey. Training her, and playing with her he says, "has made some of the happiest times of my life. It helps a lot that she is the endless masochist to my endless sadist."

~ Ponygroom is also the owner of the 2nd largest & 2nd oldest Polyamory group on FetLife, Practicing Polyamory.

More Detail on Discussion Topic:
~ We will be joined by a single woman who has lived in a triad for two years. She just moved to the Ocala area and yes, she is single and looking. She will talk about the rewards and pitfalls she experienced.

Tim will talk briefly about:

• Non-violent communication
• New Relationship Energy and Limerence
• Negotiating Limits, Boundaries, and Schedules

~ Next, we will ask the attendees for examples of arrangements that worked and arrangements that disappointed. We will go back and forth between positive examples and failure reports, trying to learn as much as we can from both.

~ We'll wrap it up by voting on the value of the ideas we heard. What do we believe someone new should know before trying to engage in this kind of relationship?