In the heat of the evening when the dealing got rough
She was too pat to open and too cool to bluff.
– The Grateful Dead, Scarlet Begonias
http://artsites.ucsc.edu/GDead/agdl/scarlet.html#pat
Found on the profile of a woman who had been married 30+ years to the love of her life. She found what and who she was looking for early on, she said, and felt fortunate.