Nails in the fence

There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a bag of
nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail
into the back of the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the
fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number
of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to
hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.

Finally the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all. He told his
father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for
each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy
was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father
took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, “You have done well,
my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same.

When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put
a knife in a man and draw it out. It won’t matter how many times you say I’m
sorry, the wound is still there.”

A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one. Make sure you control your temper the next time you are tempted to say something you will regret later.

~ author unknown