May 132013
 

If we listened to our intellect we’d never have a love affair. We’d never have a friendship. We’d never go in business because we’d be cynical: “It’s gonna go wrong.” Or “She’s going to hurt me.” Or,”I’ve had a couple of bad love affairs, so therefore . . .” Well, that’s nonsense. You’re going to miss life. You’ve got to jump off the cliff all the time and build your wings on the way down.

– Ray Bradbury

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May 092013
 

The point for me is to create relationships based on deeper and more real notions of trust. So that love becomes defined not by sexual exclusivity, but by actual respect, concern, commitment to act with kind intentions, accountability for our actions, and a desire for mutual growth.

– Dean Spade, in his essay For Lovers and Fighters

Attorney, educator and trans activist Dean Spade is author of Against Equality and Normal Life: Administrative Violence, Critical Trans Politics and the Limits of Law