J. Mikael Togneri – Kinksters' Quotes

a slave submits primarily to her own nature

quotemaster — Sun, 27 Oct 2013 06:00:22 +0000

… a slave submits primarily to her own nature. The apparent paradox of introvert/extrovert comes to light – and is resolved – when this basic fact is understood. That she requires a material, external focus for her submission, i.e. the dominant, does not alter the fact that on the spiritual level her submission is essentially introverted. One could say that through the dominant she submits to herself by proxy.

– J. Mikael Togneri, in his essay Spirituality In Slavehood

http://www.leathernroses.com/mikael/mikaelspiritslave.htm

Ecstasy and holiness

quotemaster — Sat, 26 Oct 2013 06:00:28 +0000

The BDSM ritual may be predominantly sexual in expression, however the goal is not gratification per se, but ecstasy. BDSM is, above and beyond a physical need, the psyche’s effort to make sex a sacrament. Only through the understanding and acceptance of the sacramental value of submission will slavehood be true. By the same token, of course, it also becomes holy.

– J. Mikael Togneri in his essay Spirituality In Slavehood

http://withinreality.com/wp/bdsm-quotes/

Slavehood is a vocation

quotemaster — Sat, 12 Jan 2013 09:00:27 +0000

Slavehood is a vocation, comparable and equal in every way to any religious calling.

– J. Mikael Togneri in Spirituality In Slavehood

Seven Pillars of Dominance

quotemaster — Wed, 03 Oct 2012 09:00:07 +0000

– A dominant is a ruler, but never a tyrant.
But to rule requires understanding, and understanding requires humility.

– A dominant has pride, but never arrogance.
But pride requires dignity, and dignity requires humility.

– A dominant commands respect, but never fear.
But respect requires serenity, and serenity requires humility.

– A dominant employs strength, but never force.
But strength requires knowledge, and knowledge requires humility.

– A dominant criticizes, but never derides.
But criticism requires insight, and insight requires humility.

– A dominant receives, but never takes.
But receiving requires giving, and giving requires humility.

– A dominant completes, but never tries to alter.
But to complete one must be able to see what is there, not what is missing, and this most of all requires humility.

– In short, to use an archaic phrase, noblesse oblige.
If a dominant is the center of a submissive’s universe, it is because she thinks so, not because he does.
No one is respected, let alone obeyed, just because.
The truth of the matter is that owning is at least as much work as being owned.

– J. Mikael Togneri –

http://www.whimsical-visions.com/Poetry/pillars.html